Can Women Shift (from Masculine to Feminine & Vice Versa) Authentically?

Women in business and professions know they must sometimes be masculine, sometime feminine. Can women do this “shifting” without burning out or losing themselves? It is natural and smart to select from different “versions” of ourselves when we move from one situation to another. But it can be costly. If a woman who prefers a feminine style has to behave in masculine ways a lot, she may become an “honorary man,” become exhausted or dis-engage. If she does so consciously, intentionally, “mindfully,” can she avoid these costs?

Must Leaders Be Decisive?

When you need to solve a novel and important problem, what kind of leader do you want in charge? Does the word “decisive” make your list? What do we mean by “decisive”? Usually we mean the masculine decision style – moving straight to the goal. While this is often effective, the feminine decision style has different benefits, including creativity and buy-in. The feminine style is to gather ideas, synthesize and process. It takes more time but can avoid costly misses. The best leaders can make decisions in both masculine and feminine ways and value both ways in others.

MEN AND WOMEN ARE FROM THE SAME PLANET

Recent research validates my view that we cannot stereotype men and women. Studies show that men and women operate along a continuum rather than demonstrating distinct psychological characteristics. The study debunks the “Mars and Venus” view of gender and validates the DifferenceWORKS approach. Understanding differences in masculine and feminine approaches, in both men and women, can make us more effective and more inclusive — which is good for business.